http://www.theontarion.com/2010/02/a-simple-yes-or-no/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:46:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.theontarion.com/2010/02/a-simple-yes-or-no/comment-page-1/#comment-693 Kerry Sat, 27 Feb 2010 17:30:37 +0000 http://www.theontarion.com/?p=1204#comment-693 Considering he's thinking of marrying this girl, it was definitely important that he knows! Maybe telling him right in the middle of the trip would be awkward, but in fairness to him, it should be done. He is seriously committed to her and he should know that she obviously isn't. Considering he’s thinking of marrying this girl, it was definitely important that he knows! Maybe telling him right in the middle of the trip would be awkward, but in fairness to him, it should be done. He is seriously committed to her and he should know that she obviously isn’t.

]]> http://www.theontarion.com/2010/02/a-simple-yes-or-no/comment-page-1/#comment-661 Sandy Anger Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:53:07 +0000 http://www.theontarion.com/?p=1204#comment-661 I can't really say whether or not you should have told him. I'm just going to say that I'm glad I wasn't in your position. I would feel horrible knowing something like that. I don't think there's really any excuse for cheating and although it's something you never want to hear, I don't necessarily think it's something you never want to know. I think I would want to know. Ignorance may be bliss for him, but that doesn't mean he would choose bliss. You would also have to consider the effect it could have on your friendship with your friend. Cheater girl could get pissed at her for telling you and then her get pissed at you for telling him and it could all get out of hand. Who knows. But yeah, I wouldn't be very comfortable spending the week/ end or whatever with these people knowing this dirty secret. I can’t really say whether or not you should have told him. I’m just going to say that I’m glad I wasn’t in your position. I would feel horrible knowing something like that. I don’t think there’s really any excuse for cheating and although it’s something you never want to hear, I don’t necessarily think it’s something you never want to know. I think I would want to know. Ignorance may be bliss for him, but that doesn’t mean he would choose bliss. You would also have to consider the effect it could have on your friendship with your friend. Cheater girl could get pissed at her for telling you and then her get pissed at you for telling him and it could all get out of hand. Who knows. But yeah, I wouldn’t be very comfortable spending the week/ end or whatever with these people knowing this dirty secret.

]]>